May 23, 2012

 

April 6th, 2012

What if you held a meeting and no one said a word?

Cole Dangir

productive meeting. If no one talks, you might as well issue a memo—and you won’t have the benefit of your workforce’s insight and experience.

 

Here are some tactics for generating a substantive discussion:

 

1. Become an “active listener.”

Give nonverbal encouragement to speakers while they are talking—nod, lean forward, raise your eyebrows, etc. Restate what people say to confirm you’ve understood their points. Acknowledge employees’ enthusiasm, concerns, or anger.

 

2. Ask effective questions.

Open-ended questions, which cannot be answered with a “yes” or a “no,” promote the exchange of ideas. On the other hand, when you want specific information or you want to move the group to action or agreement, ask closed-ended questions. Accept all answers, and let your people determine their value.

 

3. Direct the conversation.

Call on specific employees by name if necessary, but try not to embarrass anyone. Discourage interruptions when employees are speaking. Keep the discussion on track and rein in speakers who veer off into irrelevant subjects, or employees won’t know what you want from them.

 

 


 

April 5th, 2012

Social networking is a big slice of the online pie

Pressley Carson

If you still think social media is going to fade away in a few more months, ponder this data from Nielsen’s Social Media Report: Americans spend almost 25 percent of their time on the Internet interacting with social media and blogs.

 

Facebook remains the most popular social networking site, accounting for over 53 billion minutes’ worth of visits in May 2011 alone, followed by Yahoo, with over 17 billion minutes, and Google (12.5 billion minutes).

 

Neilsen reports that blogs and social networks are where Americans spend most of their time online—more than double the amount of time they spend playing online games.

 

Finally, consider a staggering projection by the Mobile Marketing Association of America – by the end of 2012, 25% of all Americans will own and use, in some way or volume, a tablet device.

 

 


 

April 4th, 2012

What’s the stuff that dreams are made of? The great old question.

Pressley Carson

Dreams may reveal our fears, our desires, our emotions, our repressed experiences—or they may just be random electrical impulses. Psychologists have tried to clarify what’s really going on when we’re running naked pursued by a herd of singing pink hippos.

 

Here are interpretations of common dreams:

 

Falling.

You may sense that something is out of control, or that you’re at risk of failure.

 

Flying.

Soaring in the sky can indicate you’re feeling extremely confident or proud of some­thing in your life. But if you’re struggling to stay aloft, or worried about falling, you may have anxi­ety about what you’re doing in some area.

 

Running.

Maybe you’re being chased—or just running but not going anywhere. You could be feeling stuck, just going through the paces. Or you sense a threat you want to get away from.

 

Naked.

Though Sigmund Freud believed that dreaming of oneself naked expressed a sexual desire, other dream experts say it’s more likely that you’re feeling exposed, embarrassed, or unprepared, or that you wish to hide something.

 

Teeth falling out.

This can express fears surrounding one’s appearance, or the ability to communicate. You may feel helpless, humiliated, or unable to speak your mind.

 

 


 

April 3rd, 2012

Kick the Habit #36 – April 2, 2012 (36 weeks)

Kick the Habit

I think I met the Monkey.  And, it’s not on my back, it’s in my head.

 

It’s like there’s this little voice in my head telling me, with a loving tone, to go ahead and have another.  It’s a conversation that continues during certain hours, not all day, but truly toward the end of a busy day, late afternoon, I start to think about having a nice glass of wine.

 

Then, because I’m working on this, my mind compromises and says, naw, just a beer – stay on track – you feel better, it will all be better and you can’t surrender to this shit – you’ve got to win.

 

So, for the week, it was much more intense than ever before – not the voices, I think they’ve been there for a long time, I just wasn’t hearing them – only doing what they told me.  But, I held tight on the plan – only a beer a day, Friday two glasses of wine, Saturday two glasses of wine, Sunday a beer, Monday two beers.

 

What would the numbers most likely look like if I hadn’t really tracked this?  Last week’s totals:  7 beers and 4 glasses of wine.  Without tracking:  mostly likely 27 glasses of wine and 6 beers.  So, do the math.

 

From 7 bottles of wine and a six pack to 1 bottle of wine and a six pack – good direction.

 

But, that little voice is still there – and, I’m fighting that little fucker – hard.

 

 


 

March 30th, 2012

Vaccinations: A brief history of the practice

Imin Bizpain

Vaccinations have become controversial, but the practice developed as a successful response to a deadly disease—smallpox. An epidemic hastened the decline of the Roman Empire, killing 7 million people in A.D. 108, and the disease decimated native and immigrant populations in the New World. During the 18th century, some 400,000 Europeans died of smallpox, and survivors were often left blind or disfigured.

 

Physicians and family members noticed that survivors of smallpox were immune to the disease afterward. Travelers to Western Europe from Turkey in the 18th century reported the success of a procedure in which smallpox was introduced into the body of a healthy individual, who then became immune to the disease.

 

The British aristocrat Lady Mary Wortley Montague, who had suffered facial scars from smallpox, had her 5-year-old son inoculated against the disease when her husband was stationed at a diplomatic post in Istanbul. Upon her return to England, she had the embassy physician, Chares Maitland, demonstrate the effectiveness of the practice by having her 4-year-old inoculated in the presence of royal court physicians.

 

The term “vaccination” comes from Edward Jenner, an 18th-century British physician who experiment­ed with cowpox, a less-threatening disease that appeared to confer immunity from smallpox. The word derives from the Latin “vaca,” which means “cow.” In the 19th century, French scientist Louis Pasteur further developed the technique to prevent the spread of anthrax.

 

 


 

March 29th, 2012

Money Matters – it’s about your measure

Jack the Lad

“Last night I lay in bed looking up at the stars in the sky and I thought to myself, where the heck is the ceiling?”

—unknown

 

Celebrities (movie stars, supermodels, top-level athletes, millionaires, and the like) do everything on a bigger scale than the rest of us.

 

Bigger, but not necessarily better, especially when they get divorced. When love dies, someone usually ends up paying.

 

Here’s a look at the price tag of a few high-level breakups:

 

Madonna.

When her marriage to Guy Ritchie ended in 2008, the Material Girl agreed to a settlement somewhere between $76 million and $92 million (depending on the value of the couple’s joint property, which the unhappy groom ended up with).

 

Kevin Costner.

In 1994, the Field of Dreams star woke up to discover he had to pay $80 million to his ex-wife after 16 years of marriage.

 

Harrison Ford.

Indiana Jones couldn’t avoid the rolling boulder of divorce court in 2004. He and his wife had been married for 21 years (separating briefly in 2000-2001), and his “escape” cost $85 million.

 

Steven Spielberg.

The legendary film director’s close encounter with divorce ended when he paid $100 million to his former wife. He then married Kate Capshaw, Harrison Ford’s co-star in Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom, and they remain married.

 

Michael Jordan.

The superstar may have been unstoppable on the basketball court, but in divorce court he agreed to pay $168 million to his ex-wife in what was described as a “mutual and amicable” end to their 17-year marriage.

 

 


 

March 28th, 2012

Focus on priorities for career success

Imin Bizpain

“A boss creates fear, a leader confidence. A boss fixes blame; a leader corrects mistakes. A boss knows all; a leader asks questions. A boss makes work drudgery; a leader makes it interesting.”

—Russell H. Ewing

 

“Most bosses know instinctively that their power depends more on employees’ compliance than on threats or sanctions.”

—Fernanda Bartolme

 

“One measure of leadership is the caliber of people who choose to follow you.”

—Dennis A. Peer

 

 

As a leader, your job is to set business priorities. Of course, in today’s turbulent economy, the targets seem to keep moving. For quick reference, here’s what you should be keeping your eye on:

 

Products and services.

What new items and conveniences do you need to create in order to maintain your position in the marketplace?

 

Growth.

It’s not enough to just tread water in today’s economy. What do you need to do in order to increase your share of the available market?

 

Customer satisfaction.

Are you keeping track of complaints and customer opinions? What are you doing to enhance your customers’ experience with your organization?

 

Systems and structures.

On a regular basis, review your meth­ods of doing business. Are they as productive as they could be? What changes might increase profits, assist customers, or streamline expenses?

 

Resources.

From cash to raw materials to people, your resources are key to your continued survival. Look at what you’ve got, what you need to maintain, and how much you’re willing to pay to keep those assets secure.

 

Culture.

The healthiest cultures encourage employees to learn and grow. Does yours push workers to develop themselves and advance?

 


 

March 27th, 2012

Kick the Habit #35 – March 27, 2012 (35 weeks)

Kick the Habit

I’m not sure what I expected to see happen at this point. 35 weeks is a long time to write these weekly messages, but I admit it’s starting to bother me that I’m not further along in a feeling that I’ve made a change. I’ve talked about it, but I don’t see much of a change.

 

 

The only thing I can really get my arms around is that when I drink, it’s sometimes difficult to stop at just one to two – it’s like I’m a consumer. I’ve developed a taste – and habit – of having wine, mostly, while watching some TV, or working late – writing this column.

 

 

I look forward to it. I look forward to good wines with a good dinner and friends. Now, it’s better to do the latter than the former, for sure; but, I know that if I open a bottle of wine, telling myself that I’ll just have one glass – sometime toward the end of the glass, down to one or more swallows – I start to rationalize about having just one more. That usually leads to another and then I’m afraid my wife will see the quantity and then stop.

 

 

But, I don’t seem to have it in my head that that’s happening. I’ve convinced myself of something else and I don’t even know what it is. I’m not drinking right now, but it’s on my mind – it’s a habit; like the olden days when we thought we had to have a cigarette with a cocktail.

 

 

I’m positive that if I open a bottle and have a glass, that that will become two and so on.

 

 

It’s all about not opening that bottle or having that first one. (I did have a beer, but only one).

 

 

So, I’m going to try something new and report next week if it works. If it doesn’t work, I don’t know what I’m going to report.

 

 


 

March 26th, 2012

Techniques for quashing unethical behavior

Pressley Carson

It’s easy to wonder why so many executives and employees apparently go along with blatantly unethical and illegal conduct in their organizations. The answer may be that people don’t always know what to do when confronted with requests (or demands) that aren’t on the straight and narrow.

Here’s how to respond when someone in your organization asks you to do something unethical:

Explain your concern.

Tell the other person how you feel. Use “I” statements that describe your position without attacking the other person: “I have some reservations about that plan because . . . ”

Offer an alternative.

Chances are there’s an honest way to accomplish the same goal or a similar one. Concentrate on that, emphasizing your common interests: “We both want to make more money on this product, and I think we can do it better by cutting some less-important features than by using cheaper materials.”

Go upstairs if necessary.

This should be a last resort, but if the other person insists on behaving unethically, you’ll have to protect the company—and yourself—by talking the matter over with a trusted superior.

Now, if the people demonstrating the unethical behavior are the ones upstairs, that’s when you become what you are destined to be.

If you have difficulty with the volume of contrary decisions are made, you also have to think about those stairs – who’s in charge of your situation; you boss, or you?

Very hard, stomach tearing stuff.

 

 


 

March 23rd, 2012

What’s your excuse?

Cole Dangir

Almost three out of 10 U.S. employ­ees called in sick with a lie in 2011, according to a survey by CareerBuilder.

 

But a simple “I’m sick” may be easier to take than some of these excuses given by employees (and passed on to CareerBuilder by their managers):

 

• One employee said that his 12-year-old daughter had stolen his car.

 

• Another employee reported that bats had gotten stuck in her hair.

 

• Among other animal-related excuses, a worker claimed that he’d been bitten by a deer. (To be fair, it happened during hunting season.)

 

• More animals: An employee reported injuring his back while chasing a beaver.

 

• One employee’s brother-in-law was kidnapped by a Mexican drug cartel.

 

• And one employee complained of a splitting headache after hitting too many garage sales.