Dear W2

I like my boss, but I think he wants to have an affair with me. He’s a lot older, but I think he meets with me and comes by my area just to stare at my chest. I don’t mind, really, but I’m finding myself looking at the front of his pants a lot, too. He caught me a couple of times. I’m interested to see how far we can go. Should I just tell him?

Dear Chesty -

Wow, a possible office affair….. what fun, how cool and sexy, how exciting! Honey, having had my share of experience in this area (I still remember mine) I find that unfortunately 99% of office affairs…. end in total disaster! Is the loss of your job or his worth it? Can either of you afford to be unemployed? What about loss of friendships, family, other relationships? Are you sure you want to walk down this path? These types of activities always find a way to come back and bite you in the ass. You really need to think this through!

In the meantime; take a cold shower! Write me back please, want to know how this ends! Remember if you can’t control this, be prepared for it’s going to be a bumpy ride, and I don’t mean in bed.

Pressley